In one moment we like things hard and fast—the energy is hot, rocketing. In another moment we like things soft and slow—the energy is cool, suffusing like water in a lake. It’s easy to explain why we have such apparent contradictions inside: it is because we contain two polarities, male and female.
When we make a deep inquiry into their nature, we find that the inner man and inner woman are almost like two separate characters, each with their own needs and preferences. And very often, instead of acting in harmony, they are at odds; they are fighting; they are in a permanent power struggle to see which one can come out on the top.
And this creates a havoc in our lives. One of them chooses the job and the other doesn’t like it. One chooses to have children and the other doesn’t want responsibility for them. We become split and uncertain about everything we do, and when we try to make successful relationships on the outside, it becomes next to impossible.
This group will give you a few hints about how your inner man and woman can have a different sort of connection, one which brings contentment, cooperation, and love. And when there is love on the inside of your body, it spreads simultaneously to the outer life. The way you relate to lovers, partners, family and friends shows unexpected improvement, and you start to move in a life-direction that gives you genuine satisfaction.